Child custody disputes are often excessively lengthy and emotionally taxing. In most situations, both parents want what is best for their children, but they disagree on what that means.
In some cases, one parent might act selfishly, not thinking about the best interest of the child but only about their interests or retaliating against the other parent. Those cases are heartbreaking because it is clear that the child is not at the forefront of any of the decisions.
Having an experienced Virginia child custody attorney in those situations is essential for you and your child. In many cases, the parents will agree on who should have primary physical custody of the children; but not all cases are as straightforward.
Virginia, like many states, encourages parents to create visitation agreements that keep both parents involved in their children’s lives however, this does not mean that the courts will split time between parents 50/50.
However, if you believe you should have more time than your spouse is willing to give you or your child will be unhappy or unsafe with the other spouse, it may be worth contesting your custody agreement. In your situation, there might be a strong reason for you to have more time with your child compared to your spouse.
In that case, you need a passionate child custody attorney to provide guidance and protect your rights during this difficult time. Melone Hatley, P.C. services Northern Virginia, Richmond, and Hampton Roads — and we are just as interested in protecting the best interests of your child as you are. We can take the stress off you and your children by making the process less emotional and more practical.
When spouses divorce, the issue of “who gets the kids” is often the most difficult and stressful for both parents and children. In the Commonwealth of Virginia, the law does not favor either parent. Instead, Virginia Law considers the best interests of your child, and looks at the relationship between each parent and child. While others may seek custody (grandparents, aunts, uncles), there is always a presumption in favor of the natural parents.
If the parents are not married, Virginia considers any offspring the child of his or her mother. If the father wishes to assert rights to the child, paternity must be established by signing the birth certificate or having it admitted in court. There are several ways to establish paternity, and a father should consult a family law attorney for guidance. Once paternity is established, neither party will be given a preference by the court solely on gender.
Custody is separated into two parts: legal custody and physical custody.
A parent with legal custody has the right to make plans and decisions for the child’s education, medical care, religious upbringing, discipline, and other matters concerning the child’s welfare.
A parent with physical custody has the child living with them the majority of the time. They make decisions about the child’s everyday needs.
Each additional form of custody stems from these two major categories.
Temporary custody refers to who the child is living with on a temporary basis. It is only in effect until the court establishes permanent custody. Temporary custody is generally established during a pendente lite hearing or by agreement of the parties.
Joint legal custody is when both parents have an equal right to make important decisions involving the child, including their health, education, and welfare.
This type of custody is where only one parent has the right to make decisions affecting the child’s health, education, and welfare. The other parent does not have a say in these important decisions.
Sole physical custody simply means that the child lives with just one parent. The other parent might still have visitation or legal custody, but the child will usually only live in one location with one parent.
Primary physical custody refers to which parent the child resides with the majority of the time.
Split custody arrangements are rare, and they involve one parent having custody of one child and the other parent having primary custody of another child. Some considerations for these arrangements are the child’s age and maturity and their expressed preference.
Shared custody is an arrangement where the parties share time with the children more equally.
Before deciding custody, the court will consider the factors under Virginia Code Section 20-124.3, or the “best interests of the child” standard.
Parents can create their own custody arrangements before bringing the issue to a court. However, some parents cannot agree on custody. In those situations, a court must decide.
The court will hold a hearing to decide this issue and ask each parent to present their facts and arguments. Then, the court will issue a court order for custody based on the best interests of the child. To make this determination based on Virginia child custody laws, the court will consider the following factors in its decision-making process.
A guardian ad litem (GAL) is an advocate assigned to the case by the court. This person stands up for the interests of the children involved. A GAL is not assigned to every case, but they might be asked to be involved when there are concerns about abuse or neglect. They might also be involved where there is a concern that the parents (or at least one parent) do not have the child’s best interests in mind.
Ultimately, a guardian ad litem provides an impartial recommendation about what is best for the children, often after conducting interviews and investigating the situation as a whole.
Visitation defines when each parent will spend physical time with the child. The court will again consider the factors set out above before deciding visitation. Each visitation schedule can vary drastically and will also depend on the parents’ work schedules, the distance between the parties, and the child’s school schedule.
If the parties live close to one another and the school schedule allows, the court may order a true 50/50 shared custodial schedule. This can range from a week-on-week off visitation schedule, or something more like a 2-2-3, where the parties alternate time during the week and exchange weekends.
Visitation rights are not limited solely to the other parent. Additionally, grandparents, step-parents, and other close relatives may be awarded visitation rights.
The court has the power to deny visitation. Normally the court will only stop visitation for a specific period or until a certain task is performed. For example, the court has previously denied visitation until the parent entered and completed a substance abuse program. The court may deny visitation if it is proven that the non-custodial parent is dangerous or has put the child at risk.
You cannot choose just any family law attorney when you have legal concerns involving your family. Melone Hatley, P.C. has some key attributes that will be extremely valuable as you work through the child custody process.
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